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"~When you meet someone special... you'll know.
Your heart♥ will beat more rapidly and you'll smile for no reason. XõXõ"

PhotobucketFriday, September 9, 2011 @ 10:44 AM


Morning SugarPies!

Saw something on the net that i feel like sharing to everyone out there! :')

 Dating rules you must break
When it comes to dating, what are the so-called protocols you should toss out?

 
Men must pay for dinner
Given how evolved social norms and chivalry have muddied the water on who should be picking up the check, gone are the days when men were assumed to be responsible for the tab.

However, some guys think it's ungentlemanly if they don't offer paying.
If he insists, do let him pay -- he's just being gallant. No matter who foots the bill, just don't split it down to the middle, especially on first dates.

My personal thoughts: Ladies, you shouldn't let men pay all the time and its okay to pay once in a while.
It should be more of a give and take thing! I think that its more of "testing market" and we actually wanna see if our date takes the initiative to pay for the bill.
But if your men doesn't wanna pay all the time... then there must be something wrong. LOL!


Don't date your friend's ex

Ditch the old adage that you should never date your friend's old squeeze. If there's chemistry, it's worth the risk. Do a little bit of digging of the story behind their breakup. And make sure there's no longer love connection between them before you begin to fathom a relationship with your love interest.

My personal thoughts: Its never cool to date your bestfriend's ex. There must be a reason why things don't work out between them! I don't know how to really interpret what I feel like saying about this, but really, its just not cool!
There are many fishes out there! *lol*


A woman should never ask a man out
If you're one who shies away from being the initiator, you leave it to the man to do the job. But if you aren't, don't worry about the traditional dating rule which says it's always the man's responsibility to do the asking.

If he freaks out when you do, it just shows that he's probably not for you.
While they love the thrill of chasing, guys would actually appreciate that they don't have to take the plunge all the time.

My personal thoughts: Well.. I would say that if the guy just keeps quiet and goes missing in action after the first date, he probably doesn't have any interest in you.
But if you both have been going on several dates already, its okay to plan and ask him out to somewhere nice!
He'll appreciate that! :')


You can't check out other hotties

Let's be honest -- it's our guilty pleasure. When someone gorgeous crosses our path, we can't help but ogle them. It's not cheating. It's just in our genetic makeup.
If that bothers your significant other, be a little bit more ingenious while checking them out. You don't want to drool over other hunks or babes blatantly while your partner is with you.
But if you catch your partner in the act, your berating will never change him; it'll only show that you feel insecure.
My personal thoughts: Well i don't agree to this! I think that its okay to check out other hotties cause there's always gonna be someone prettier/cuter/handsome-r(okie no such word :P) out there.If he/she is taken aback & it really shows how much of a jealous person he/she is.
Jealousy is bad....
Initiate follow-up only after three days

If you hit it off with your date during the first rendezvous, how long do you wait before doing the follow-up?
There's this golden rule in the dating world which says you should keep in touch only after three days. However, rules are meant to be broken.
If you're into your date, you'd be wondering why he hadn't called or texted.
At least drop a text the next day saying that you had fun with her and would love a second date.

My personal thoughts: 3 days or more should be fine! Have some space to at least make both parties look forward to seeing each other.
 If its too soon it'll be boring i guess!           


Always be mysterious

While it's good to hold your horses and not reveal all your cards on the first date to keep the attraction flowing, give your love interest a chance to know the real you after that.
However, avoid bragging about your accomplishments or the assets you own. We typically try hard to put our best foot forward when we first date. But after a while, these will tend to vanish -- we'll no longer impress our significant other as much.
So, don't keep her interest level too high at the beginning.
 
My personal thoughts: Most importantly, be yourself.
Of course everyone wants to give a good impression on a date!
Avoid talking about your ex on a date

If you wish to start over with a clean slate, you should never treat your past relationships as a taboo subject. Talk about it when your date initiates the topic (if he ever does) but never get emotional or start trashing your old flame.
He'll think that he's just your rebound guy.
If you avoid it, he'd probably think that you're still hung up on your ex.

My personal thoughts: You should only come to this topic if the our date asks about it!
And remember, never give out too much detail! Heh!

Happy TGIF everyone!
With love, Miza xxx
; you know you love me♥, XOXO

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PhotobucketTuesday, September 6, 2011 @ 10:10 PM


One of the most bitter feelings to have in this life is when you're looking forward towards something but you know somehow or rather it is impossible to happen.

Im so over it! Period.
; you know you love me♥, XOXO

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PhotobucketSaturday, September 3, 2011 @ 1:09 AM


Had a great TGIF shopping with mum and sister at town today!
Its been so long since i last pamper myself with clothes! *happy girl for a minute*

I've slowed down on headbands, earrings, shoes(I NEED TO) some time back(some of you must have wondered.. how some time back is that.. *lol*)

My mission for this month: $AVE MONEY$$$$
*keeps fingers crossed*

Anyways school is starting this coming monday and i'm so not looking forward towards it.
Most of my classmates & good friends are posted to IPP(attachment) whereas im all alone doing FYP.
What can I say, just my luck.

Im assigned to 'Static code analysis of J2EE/.Net projects using Fortify Tools' for my FYP project and for god knows how much I really hate codings.
Programming and me is like a mismatch made in heaven.

 I will try and try to get it right but at the end of the day it just can't stay in my brain.
Why?
Cause of no interest. and maybe also cause im dumb :/
Wanted to try my luck asking my mentor to swap me, but then i got lazy and i didn't even bother asking.
Serve me right.


P/S: Its September 3rd today... Hmm.
Laters!
xoxo cupcakes♥

; you know you love me♥, XOXO

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PhotobucketThursday, September 1, 2011 @ 3:25 AM



Selamat Hari Raya!
B.R.B
xoxo
; you know you love me♥, XOXO

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PhotobucketMonday, August 29, 2011 @ 2:31 AM


I have this very bad habit of overspending on too many unnecessary stuffs.
I think I bought *counts in my head* 9 pairs of wedges this year and 4 pairs of my wedges are rotting at home.

I've only used 2 of those pairs once, and the other 2 pairs is hiding in my room under my bed. *lol*
I think my dad will kill me if he sees them in my room. Scawee~ (not!)

Mum says that i gotta control myself from having the urge to buy something everytime I go out & my sister keeps telling me that the devil is around me all the time asking me to buy this and that.

But shopping does release stress sometimes y'know? I bet most of the girls out there would agree to this statement!

Shall get my beauty sleep right now, catch me next time!
Kicks & Punches, XO :')

; you know you love me♥, XOXO

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PhotobucketSunday, August 28, 2011 @ 6:16 PM


So everyone's talking about the headlines of Mr Dr Tony Tan becoming the new president.
Me and family all voted for him and our gut feeling says that he's gonna win it fo sho and also cus he seem to be the hot favourite among all.
Congrats Dr Tony! :')

I don't get it why some singaporeans are so worked up on him winning the title.
In Singapore the one that has more power is the Prime Minister so who cares if who wins as the President?
As what people always say, the president is just the "puppet".

So yeah people, get over it. Its over.

So moving on..
Send my bibik back to Indonesia for 10days as she wanted to celebrate Hari Raya at her own country this year.
So from now till 8th September im the new maid in the house. (NOT)

I've helped to clean up my room, wash my own plate, fold clothes, but not ironing clothes.
Im always afraid to iron the clothes sometimes cus i once iron my dad's hari raya baju and it burnt into a big hole. My bad!

Ciao! Xx

; you know you love me♥, XOXO

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PhotobucketSaturday, August 27, 2011 @ 8:55 PM


Been wanting to do a proper update but i was taken aback by some things.

Reason No.1 - I have a stalker who knows everywhere i go, with whoever i go, just
name anything and everything.
And it really drives me up the wall sometimes!

Reason No.2 - My mum reads my blog now. If you're reading now, HELLO MUMMY, please press Ctrl + F4 now.
You should be asking me on my daily life instead of reading my blog behind my back thank you very nice :D

Reason No.3 - Life's been pretty way too awesome for me to even think of this site.

Reason No.4 - Time is passing by too fast to even get my fingers on my keyboard.

Reason No.5 - I'm oblivious that I totally neglected this site cus' im either busy on facebook, twitter, formspring or playing my girly game on the iPad. *roll eyes*


Will blog again cherrie pies :') 
Laters!
XO
; you know you love me♥, XOXO

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Photobucket @ 1:27 AM


Ever been in a situation where sometimes theres just some things that you really wish you didn't know bout' it?

Bleah.
; you know you love me♥, XOXO

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PhotobucketFriday, August 26, 2011 @ 1:08 AM


I've decided to block and remove some people from my social networking sites.
For Good.
Nuff Said.
X
; you know you love me♥, XOXO

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PhotobucketMonday, May 30, 2011 @ 12:30 PM


Dear blogger, i'M so dearly sorry to have abandon you for quite some time now..
Hate to break it to you that, someone else is taking most of time away from you and i need more juice to blog cus i always run out of words to say!
Tee hee!

But anywaysie, life's been pretty much good. Well pretty much awesome to be exact! :')
Can't believe im saying this but im finally enjoying my days in school & during floorball trainings!

Im saying this again, i need some motivation to blog! Really i do.

Till here! XOXO

P/S: Maybe i'M a bad shooter, cus i keep Missing You♥ :")
; you know you love me♥, XOXO

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